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“Anything you hold against someone else you hold against yourself. All accusations are self-accusations. There are no bad guys, we can all WIN.” - Dr. Chuck Spezzano

It All Seems So Obvious

Rabbi Ben Zoma was asked:

“Who is wise?”

“He who always finds something to learn from others,” said the Rabbi.

“Who is strong?”

“The man who is capable of dominating himself,” responded the Rabbi.

“Who is wealthy?”

“He who knows the treasure he has: his days and hours of life, which can change everything which goes on around him.”

“Who deserves respect?”

“He who respects himself and his neighbor.”

“These things are all so obvious,” commented one of those present. The Rabbi concluded by saying:

“That is why they are so difficult to observe.”

by Paulo Coelho

Greatness lies in simplicity. At DMI, we can make an ordinary person to become who they want to be with our life-changing Experiential Training. Come and attend our training so you’ll know how great you can become…

How to Build Up Your Self-Confidence

Have you ever felt nervous when talking to a stranger or a crowd? I believe more or less you have! One of the main causes is lack of confidence. Yet, the real challenge is how to boost up your self-confidence under important circumstances like research paper presentation, thesis defense, job interview or business presentation. You may have prepared such items as smart suits, a brand-new belt, sufficient material, etc. Oops, you forget to prepare one critical thing that mainly contributes to your success: MINDSET.

How can a great-looking guy be well scored while his mental attitude doesn’t go along with his appearance? I meant you haven’t prepared to be self-confident enough to “please” your audience. The good news is that this attribute can be practiced and developed with these simple steps:

1 – Focus on what you want.

This is what most of us neglect. While preparing for our turn, we spend time thinking of how negatively you will end up. Don’t care about how people would react. They will judge you by the way you express yourself and keep positive about who you are.

2 – Visualize yourself succeeding

After taking three deep breathes, picture yourself with positive results. Everybody congratulates you. You handle all the questions asked by your audience. Usually this visualization brings us smile, mostly triggering to our positive expectations.

3 – Use alert signs

Psychologists affirm that, like animals, human beings are conditioned with some behaviors. For example, whenever you take a dog a dish with food, your pet will look at the dish with saliva. Do it again without food, the dog will keep mouthwatering at your dish! Why not do this with yourself? Try to use any sign meaning your self-confidence, like holding your hand tight or crossing your fingers.

4 – Repeat positive auto-suggestions

This technique is the easiest. Still, like other techniques, it needs exercising. Now try to say all these sentences and feel how they power you up:

- I am confident.

- I can do it.

- I am a successful student/candidate/employee/businessman.

- I’m enjoying brilliant results…

Don’t just say or do it once; repeat it until you feel energy coming from inside you. Your own mind can be prepared like other items and even developed to its fullest by exercises or trainings.

“You are the product of your thought.” – Buddha

by Sithen Sum

Sithen is a motivational trainer and business development manager with DreamMakers International (DMI), a HR Developer company based in Singapore and operating in Indochina, including Cambodia. If you wish to learn more how to develop your self-confidence to its fullest, please contact him at 012 684 955 or dmihrd@gmail.com or visit www.sithendmi.wordpress.com.

Inter Net Party and IT Exhibition

Event Title: Internet Party

Organizer: Manich Enterprise (www.ipcambodia.com)

Time: 09h am to 07h pm

Date: Friday and Saturday, May 23rd and 24th, 2008

Venue: 5th floor, Sovanna Shopping Center (near Russia hospital)

Admission: FREE of charge (For free opening snack, you need to get an invitation!)

Participants: Over 20 Exhibitors and many other IT-related companies

Features: Fun Program, Live Concert, Catwalk Performance, Online Game Competitions, Lucky Draw with a brand new laptop as Top Prize, and, of course, Networking Opportunities!

Contact: 023 99 66 33

Hope to see you guys then:)

How to Distress Your Life

Embrace things in your life that drive you to achieve, and start letting go of those things that do not. It is difficult to distinguish the category in which any of your activities belong, but paying attention to your choices and their consequences will sponsor the awareness you’ll need to make better life choices in the future. Although things that bring us happiness outside of work can be our greatest inspiration for professional success, often they are so simple, we cast them aside as inconsequential. Do not do this. Remember the small things that make you happy, and use them to battle things that loom much larger and stress you out. Consider these suggestions:

• Fill your mind with thoughts of peace, courage, hope, and health
• Never try to get even with your enemies
• Expect ingratitude
• Count your blessings, not your troubles
• Try not to imitate others
• Create happiness for others

“We forge the chains we wear in life.” – Charles Dickens

by Dale Carnegie

No matter how your life is, you still have the choice to live it. If you wish to experience its fullest, with a variety of emotional, yet educational tastes, come and pre-register in our training now.